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Question: I care what others think of me and others say negative things about me and it hurts me. What can I do?
Answer: The Divine is supporting you always.You are so very loved and worthy of love. Ignore the naysayers, take nothing they say personally. They are lost little children throwing temper tantrums based on their fixed beliefs based on their own insecurities/fears. This is a Free Will density (the choice of Love or Fear) and if they are ignorant of Love, that is their choice. Love is the key to graduation. All we can do is show the way.
An example of this approach- Luke 23:2–32 "And they began to accuse him, saying, “We found this man misleading our nation and forbidding us to give tribute to Caesar, and saying that he himself is Christ, a king.” And Pilate asked him, “Are you the King of the Jews?” And he answered him, “You have said so.”....Jesus took nothing seriously that was untrue. It was their choice to accuse him of nonsense but he knew the real truth from God. So we are with our lives, we understand fear based choices are from unconscious autopilot reactions while Love is truth-based conscious action. Those people who are based in fear base everything on illusion, so there is nothing to take personal they say because it is illusion.
Here is the Buddha story similar to it. https://kintsugispace.com/anger-a-buddhist-story/
A modern approach is how Suzanne Giesemann says, "Isn't that interesting?" A complete detached neutral observer. It is their choice to say what they say and react as they do, but our choice is to ignore their fear and center ourselves in the loving truth within.
Basically centered in Love we become transparent to all that is not of Love. Fear passes right through us with no effect. I use this technique a lot as a grocery cashier. I look right through the angry customers to their inner little child hurting core. The angry customers complain "you should and you should that", "should" is an indicator of their fixed beliefs by the way which leads to their fear based temper tantrums, and I respond neutrally with love- I'm sorry that happened to you, let me see how I can help. Conscious love action not a reaction from fear.
This is a skill called discernment. If it resonates with love keep it, all else let it fall away. Initially filter all thoughts and feelings through the heart. Question yourself- Does it resonate with love or not? If it is love keep it. Else let it fall away.
Later once the heart fully opens [after lotus petals open of sacrifice (of lower self/ego), love (service to others) and knowledge (acquire spiritual knowledge)] it emits a powerful electro-magnetic field that silences the mind with its fears and judgments and there is only love and peace allowed in the fields. Thoughts are electric (mental body) and feelings are magnetic (emotional or astral body). The Fully Opened Heart has a higher spiritual frequency (from buddhic/atmic planes) that bathes the mental and emotional/astral body. Higher frequency energy always dissolves lower frequency energy. Basically the fires of love/spirit burn away all non-love debris (mental and emotional/astral body sheaths). This process happens in the bardo for people not ascending and later reincarnating but for people ascending this happens in the physical body while alive on physical Earth.
A quote- “The Heart (Love) is the key to leaving the matrix of separation and entering the Unity of God.” ~ My Higher Self (during a message to me during meditation)
