During times when you find yourself on hold in any part of your life, why not give up the idea of being "stuck"? An attitude that would serve your spirit better would be one of curiosity; a healthier questing thru that which is limiting instead of fitful fear that you will not get to your desired next expression. We are living in time streams that support the flow of sacred, energetic, magnificent Divine vibrations. You will never be stuck again, EVER! You might be on hold, but you will never be stuck.
You are a fiery, brilliant Spark of Source Intelligence. When seeking and doing doesn't seem to pay off and you are feeling stuck, consider stopping and waiting in order that you see what might be seeking you. A balanced life involves both polarity expressions. Our hyper-masculine paradigm is so loaded with stimulation, action, and initiative that even females find themselves programmed with the urge to "go and do." The inflowing December energy is Peace, gentleness, opening, and allowing. Even the practice of nurturing is a masculine energy, is it not? If you go and do for others, you are still going and doing. How then, can anything manage to "do you" in return?
Life is a process, not an achievement. The appearance of a finish line, in any respect, is a third dimensional construct, designed to promote the idea of "beginning-middle-end" for 3D experiences. And that is as it should be. Beyond the veil, however, everything that appears to finish really just continues on and on and on. Even these words that would imply to you that mankind has completed one level of training and has moved on to another is a necessary concession, in the process of communicating Eternal Truth within a temporal context.
If what you are seeking eludes you . . . STOP. Running faster and longer will not avail you. Anything that doesn't come easily is not meant for realization in the present moment. That doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Everything exists, but not everything is perceived in a physical way. Our 3D construct was designed to be a close-up and personal examination of those elements in life that we have been RESISTING, see? They would have to be because in order to become solidified some part of reality would have to be slowed down through personal resistance.
That which does not readily appear for you in the physical can be instantly available to you in the spirit. Only believe, and it is your for the taking. Close your eyes, visualize it and embrace what is yours. Only a doubting Thomas needs physical realization in order to believe and receive. Is that you? Oh well, all right . . . but life does not have to be hard unless you make it so. And if you do, then celebrate! Honor yourself for choosing a rigorous and challenging path. Always honor yourself where you are, whatever you are doing, right here and right now.
For in other universes, you exist only as a symbol . . . part of the Soul that has been contracted there for teaching and assistance.