Self-helpers might tell you to define your goals with great specificity. I'm not going to. I'm going to be very explicit about what I want while remaining vague and general enough that the grander powers in charge can way with me.
Maybe I'm in the jam I'm in now because I thought my conscious mind was in control. I've given lip-service to the resources, power and mystery of the unconscious realm, but my relationship with the deeper parts of me has involved more me telling it what I want rather than asking it what it wants.
Therefore! I won't make any specific demands. If there is something that I absolutely must have, as I literally will not live with out, I'll express it